Tuesday, December 15, 2015

place for dating or place for pleasure?

Unlike Facebook because it doesn't involve communicating with friends but unlike match.com because it was not made strictly for dating so then what is it. Like there motto they say that people can meet friends on there app but how many times when you swipe to the right do you actually want to be friends with them. Averaging around 16,000 swipes per second people clearly aren't taking much time to get to know the person before swiping its more of a simple check to see if there photo meets their standards and thats basically it. Without any pressure because you don't know that person and will most likely never see them kids can randomly chat whoever they want whenever they want.




But you could also argue that if someone needed a little self confidence booster or someone to talk to that this app would be a top option for that because who wouldn't want to see a bunch of people that they were matched up with.














Tinder the key to cheating?

Due to the fact that this app allows you to swipe right and left to match people go through so many people that they eventually find someone to chat. But If you are trying to find a soul mate or a partner why take so little time to look at there profile. Around 16 billion daily swipes. They also say that 54% of people on tinder are single but that seems a little low for a place to find a partner. If your app is bringing in 50% single and 50% in a relationship that seems like a lot of people would be cheating.










Why you shouldn't online date

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlPD90Toynk

Is Match.com worth it?

What happened to meeting a person at a bar or just in public and hitting it off with them an hopping for the best. Most people have become antisocial and hope that these online dating cites will help them find there true love. Match.com seem to be the most popular one because of all the advertising but is it really? The odds of going on a date is 1 out of 10 , you have a better chance meeting a girl at a bar and going on a date with them plus you'll do it in a lot faster time. Also you don't have to pay a monthly subscription just to talk to people. Another thing is only 17% of people get marriage from online website in the last 3 years. So Honestly math.com is a waste of time just go out, have fun and meet people because theres a lot better chance of meeting the one doing it that way then sitting in front of a computer screen.

Is Tinder not getting the job done?

Tinder which is now a new fun application where all ages can meet new people. On their website it says, "Friends, dates, relationships, and everything in between." This applications sees about 50 million users and gets about 10 million per day. But is this app actually helping you find your soul mate or pushing you further away?

                                         https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OD30-21xw7o

Is Instagram Ruining Your Love Life?

http://www.vogue.com/872400/instagram-ruining-love-life-slutever-karley-sciortino/



Couples Pages on Facebook


#RelationshipGoals

Let's take a journey through the stages of a relationship with Instagram, the widely popular photo and video sharing social media site:





















Facebook Ruining Marriages?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3dNLM61Pelg

Does Facebook Promote Jealousy in Your Love Life?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/09/09/facebook-relationship-problems-social-networking_n_955980.html

Monday, December 14, 2015

Sugar Mama's?

 Are websites like these the reason why many men still treat women like they are not equal beings in terms of intelligence and individuality? Well, according to Aja Gabel's "The Marriage Crisis," the main focal point that propelled women into an equal world was their ability to be individuals and provide for themselves. Following the Women’s Liberation Movement in the late 1960s and ‘70s, more women earned college degrees and entered the workforce (Gabel 8). As women slowly dominate college female to male percentages, this will lead to better jobs and of course, more of an ability to create for themselves. Websites like SeekingArrangement and SugarBaby.com , however, push women back in terms of public view. We are in 2015, women no longer need to use their looks to get financial support from men. Instead, like they have shown particularly in the past 40-50 years, women can provide for themselves and be evenly if not more successful than men...Hence the opening of SugarMama.com!!!


Image result for man with his sugar baby

Sugar Babies; Chivalry Is Dead Indeed

Are 'Sugar Relationships' based on the idea of love or internal interest? Essentially the Sugar Babies website is a social media outlet like Tinder or Match.Com, where people can match and go on dates. The major difference here is that everyone on this website wants something more than 'true love'. Sugar Babies want wealth. They want someone to pay for their tuition or take them shopping in a Lamborghini. As for Sugar Daddies, they want the company of a beautiful young woman, one they could never achieve based on personality or looks. Especially for business nights or nights out in general, $1,000 is nothing to men like this if it means the jealousy of his peers. These relationships are not based on love, and according to the Sugar Baby website, over 70% of these relationships never get to marriage. Gaston Pars' idea of Courtly Love back in 1833 has no role here (Delahoyde 1). Chivalry is nowhere to be found on a site like this.

What is a Sugar Baby?


Just when the world seemed ready for two genders coexisting equally midst each other, Sugar Babies took matters into their own hands and flung the Women’s Liberation Movement right back into the 1940s…When it did not even exist.... What is a Sugar Baby? No, it is not the bite-sized caramel coated sweets you find at your grandmas.Sugar Babies are people, usually females, who arrange dates and relationships via the internet with someone who is well-off financially and can benefit their lives through wealth; these men are called Sugar Daddies. There are many different sites out there like this, with SeekingArrangement being one of the most well-known. According to the official Sugar BabyWebsite, where beautiful females sign up to meet wealthy male ‘supporters,’ "Sugar baby website is the best designed of high-end private dating services platform for seeking arrangement. Generous sugar daddy to provide material and money for sugar baby, to pay tuition, help them solve the predicament in the life, provide luxury, enjoy the rich life, let them become more beautiful and confident, Not only that, sugar babies also to get professional help in career from sugar daddy." Sense the insanity yet? That is the first set of text on their website, read it over again to see if it makes sense. "Sugar Babies can also to get professional help in career from a sugar daddy." Obviously the Sugar Daddy did not pay for their partners English classes.